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Coping with Loss

Grief is how a bereavement affects us personally. It’s what we experience when we lose something or someone important to us. This experience can be particularly hard when someone close to us dies. Coping with loss means making sense of the loss and learning to live without that person. This is the work of grieving.

Good grief

In this Aware Ireland talk, Dr. Susan Delaney discusses coping with loss. She talks about grief resolution, how others see grieving, and how to manage grief.

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